Fraternity Brothers, i need ur opinion....choosing the right fraternity..or should i join one?

You could have stayed home if you wanted to drink heavily and be humiliated. Several years after you graduate, you'll look back at your university years and wish you'd met a more diverse crowd of friends, focused more on your studies and grades, and not subjected yourself to that kind of enforced conformity. Skip it, and be friends with people who like you for who you are, not because you begged them to let you into their club.