Your take on my dream please (very long and detailed)?

Well, I think we should start with the "husband". You'll notice that you refer to him as "husband" and not "my husband", so there's obviously some issues there. The whole dream is probably based on your relationship with him. The scenery is very beautiful, so you must have had a very nice relationship with him. This relationship was just taking you along very nicely, so that you didn't need to be in control of your own destiny. That's why there were no oars. You liked being able to trust your husband to provide for your happiness. But the bridge that takes you to this beautiful scenery is starting to crumble. You see a pen, which warns of being trapped. You then see some dangerous creatures, disguised as something beautiful. You realize the mirage and you know it's time to get back, to where you can control your own destiny. You are afraid of taking that leap, however. Do you have enough wherewithal to make it on your own? You have a job, but want more security. After all, what you're leaving is quite beautiful. Security, I think is what it is. You make your own money, but I guess he must make a tidy sum to add to that. I think you definitely want to be more free, but do you have the guts to become a real hippy/Jack Kerouac kind of person?